I didn’t really read the entire book, but I think that Nuture Shock contains useful advice even for us non-parents. After all, the corporate world is full of big babies who need to be praised and criticized in a way that is: specific, honest, focused on effort instead of ability, and intermittent.
The nurtureshock.com site linked to this illuminating examination of the divergent and convergent model of creative thinking:
http://www.thedailybeast.com/newsweek/2010/07/10/the-creativity-crisis.html
I could not find any trace of the original thedailybeat article, though it may still be out there somewhere.
I did find this as possibly covering the same subject:
https://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2011/03/the-creativity-crisis-why-american-schools-need-design/73038/